Review: Tantus Echo Handle

The time has finally come dear readers, I have finally in my eyes achieved what I consider my first hat trick of Tantus toys! Having a set of all three of the handled dildos!

I finally was able to get my hands on the lovely Echo Handle (in the lovely midnight purple color but it does come in the strawberry pink as well) and let me tell you that my body was oh so ready for this to go down.

Echo Handle Credit: Britt

For those of you who are not familiar the Echo Handle is designed from the classic Echo vibrator with an ergonomic grip handle for thrusting. The design itself is meant to target the g-spot specifically. Let me tell you that this toy gets that job done nicely.

The curve of the head is the part that hits the g-spot itself, the waves after it I found perfect for with just the slight bit of curling upwards to target my clit for some seriously added pleasure to the point that I didn’t feel like I needed to pull out one of my bullets or slimmer vibrators to get off. Which for me is rare to not need some kind of other stimulation when I am using any kind of dildo.

The handle is super comfortable to hold in one’s hand, it has a firm grip and just enough texture that I found even with my hands having a bit of lube on them it never slipped out of my hand once. I also found the pommel of the handle to be comfortable to hold now and then when I needed just a little more power behind my thrusting.

Now you noticed I mentioned lube, I found that this is a toy that I really need to use lube with. I am rather certain that it is the texture of the toy and the firmness of the silicone. So it takes a little bit of lube and just a bit of warming up but that honestly made it all the better taking the time to feel the slight popping of the head as it was used against my g-spot seemed to find that right pressure that I need to actually get off in that fashion. G-spot orgasms are super rare for me and I have in the past only been able to achieve them with a partner but the Echo Handle allows me to get some of that without the need of a partner. I still find I would need a partner to get the full experience of what I enjoy out of g-spot orgasm if I was going to use the toy for that. Mostly because a partner using the toy on me doesn’t have to stop whereas I find I need to take a few breaks now and then. All of that arm work gets to you!

(Top to Bottom) Anaconda, Echo Handle, Goddess Handle Credit: Britt

The toy itself is Diameter 1.5″ in girth and the insertable length 7″ so it matches the Goddess handle in girth but beats in in length by a full half inch if you needed something a little longer. Now, of course, I had to test this and while it made no difference to me, it very well to another so it is a good thing to note for those of you who may be discerning about the size of your toys. The only real difference I found in the two was the head of the Echo Handle had a little more curve to it which hit my g-spot far easier than the Goddess. Which makes sense as that is what the Echo Handle is meant to do. Of course both of them are beaten by the Anaconda for girth which comes in at 1.75″ to their both 1.5″.

Like with all of Tantus‘ toys the Echo Handle is made with their own unique formula of 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone which is eco-friendly, hypoallergenic, hygienic, boilable, bleachable and dishwasher safe. Their toys are some of my favorites by far for this reason alone because I know that it is going to be made from quality material and easy to take care of.  Because of its length, the Echo Handle can be used both vaginally and anally without having to worry about losing it so it is one of the few toys without a strict flared base that I will recommend for anal play.

Overall the Echo Handle has more than lived up to the handle line and all of the other Tantus toys that I have gotten the honor to review in the past. It is one that I know I am going to turn to often when I am looking for a good g-spot orgasm.

Thank you to Tantus for sending me this toy in exchange for a fair and honest review.

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Review: Tantus Rumble

Okay, I am going to be super honest with you guys here, while I am a fan and love my Magic Wand, sometimes the intense vibration that it causes is not something that I am looking for at that moment. There are many reasons, be it I don’t want to get off that quickly, I just am sensitive to handle something so powerful or I just don’t want to deal with the cord at that moment. But I still want the coverage of a wand vibrator and not something as pinpoint as a clitoral vibrator. I had tried other wands but most of them still produced the buzzy feeling that was just not what I was looking for at that time.

Enter the Tantus Rumble! A super light weight and rumbly wand vibrator from the good folks at Tantus!

Tantus Rumble Credit: Britt

Compared to the other wands I have used I can easily use it with one hand without having to switch out. The handle is angled and allows me to rest my arm however I please. The head of the wand has a silicone top that is easy to remove so that you can clean it between uses.

Compared to the other wands I have used before the Rumble I can easily use it with one hand without having to switch out because I have gotten tired of holding it up. The handle is angled and allows me to rest my arm however I please. The head of the wand has a silicone top that is easy to remove so that you can clean it between uses and has an almost velvety texture that with or without lubrication does not irritate my sensitive skin.

With a micro USB charger, it means that for someone like me who has a bad habit of her chargers running off that I can use any cord and have it charged up. I can’t lie and say that I haven’t used both my phone charger and the charger for my Xbox One controller to charge the Rumble up. 7 whole settings from low to high intensity as well as different pulsations give some distinct variety when it comes to wand toys that often only have low and high to them. Plus the charge lasts for what seems like days to me so that I don’t have to worry about always having it charged it right before use.

Now I will be honest, I am a super fangirl for Tantus and often don’t have a lot of bad things to say when it comes to Tantus products. They have treated me and my sex life rather right over the last few years. But there are a few small things that stood out about the Rumble.

I did find the head of it to thicker than other wands and a little harder to place right on my clit so I find myself having to turn it on its side so that I just use the ridge of it rather than try to use the whole head.  Then there is the placing of the power button, it is at the top near the head of the wand. For where I hold it, I have turned it off on myself a couple of times from holding it too tightly which has caused a couple of ruined orgasms until I learned the best place to hold my hand not do cause that. Though I am curious to see how the other heads that Tantus now offers for the Rumble will change how I use the toy.

Right now I find the Rumble perfect for when I need that extra stimulation while playing with dildo. The toy is lightweight enough that I can settle it between my labia and then just use the toy I choose (which tends to be one the Tantus Handle toys). There are other times it is honestly just good by itself when I have the time for a long kind of lazy masturbation session where I can just lay in bed and enjoy the slow burn of some of my favorite erotica or a longer porn scene that I want to just really focus on it while enjoying getting off at the same time! I have looked back on when I have used this toy and most often I have used it on just the low setting more often than I have used it on the high setting.

The vibrations are just as the Rumble’s name states, rumbly. It can’t even make me sneeze when I put it to the nose test which is a first for most of the toys that I have in my collection. I can barely hear it when I have it on even on the highest setting which is nice and it becomes totally silent under the covers if you have to be worried about that sort of thing with roommates or kids. Though I have noticed that with the light weight design of the Rumble I have just let it then settle somewhere and I wake up the next morning with it tangled in my sheets along with me.

Cleaning the Rumble is super easy, I can remove the silicone top to wash with my other silicone toys. The rest of the toy I use a wipe to take care of anything that might be left, I found that with the top that I don’t have to take my trusty sex toy toothbrush to the nooks and crannies of the toy which saves me a lot of time.

Overall the Tantus Rumble has earned its place near my bedside with its super sleek design and function that I had not yet found in my other favorites.  One day I hope to get a chance to see how it fares with this three attachments the Convertable, Spoon, and Dorado which you can also pick up for it at Tantus.

Once gain I thank the good people at Tantus Inc for sending me their products to review in exchange for an honest review.

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Guideline to Gags and Types

I have written about gags in the past, but as one of my most read posts, I thought that I would expand a little bit further into the subject itself! Because gags are actually rather versatile when it comes down to it given that there are so many types. So I thought I would go through them and get a little more complex than just your standard ball gag.

There are different gags for different situations and play. Some are made to fill the mouth, while others provide easier access by forcing the mouth to open further. This list is expansive and I have likely left a few out or missed one or two kinds in my search. Feel free to throw me a comment if you know of one that I might have looked over!

Playing with gags can be a risky activity. Make sure that before using them on yourself or with a partner that you understand the risks and safety of using them. If you’re looking for a guide, you can start from reading this one. There will also be general safety for some gags listed in here along with them because they are not covered in my first post.

I have gotten a rather large list, but I am sure that I have missed some. All links go straight to Stockroom as they have the largest selection I have been able to find of gags! This is not a sponsored post I just enjoy supporting all of my affiliates when I can!

Ball gag: This gag usually made of rubber or silicone in the shape of a sphere with a strap passing through its diameter. The most common diameter is 1¾ inches, but other sizes can be found. In use, the ball is strapped into the mouth behind the teeth, with the straps going around the head to secure it in place. If the ball is very large, it may be difficult to push it into place behind the teeth or to remove it. A ball gag’s purpose is more of humiliation rather than pure silence. The wearer can still be heard, but it renders their speech completely unintelligible, distorts their facial features, and, should the wearer attempt to talk, excessive drooling will result. This is the most common kind of gag.

Wiffle gag: is a simple ball gag that replaces the standard solid rubber ball with a light plastic ball similar to the one used for the game of floorball. It is generally safer because there is constant airflow. Very good for beginners and people who do not feel like having any sort of breathing restricted. Though still produces many of the effects of a normal ball gag.

Bit: Styled like the bit used in a bridle for a horse, and much of its sexual appeal stems from pony play though some come shaped like bones to also be able to be used for puppy/pet play. It consists of a bar that is held in place in the wearer’s mouth by straps or other devices. Unlike the metal bit that is most common in horse bridles, the bar of a bit gag is usually a soft rubber cylinder. It is not very effective in hindering speech unless combined with mouth stuffing, although it will make it somewhat more difficult for the wearer to produce coherent speech. Occasionally reins are attached. Because of the possibility of injury to the lips and teeth, the bit gag is not suitable for rough play.

Butterfly: a butterfly gag is a wing shaped gag, that is usually inflatable by means of a rubber bulb. The central part fits behind the teeth to fill up the mouth, while the wings go between the teeth and the lips. The gag inflates in the shape of a butterfly. This kind of gag is very hard to keep in the wearer’s mouth; use of an O-ring in front of the gag strapped to the back of the head will hold the butterfly gag in place. It is a rather extream gag is often used in extream play as well.

Cleave: Variant of the OTM (Over The Mouth) gag is called the cleave gag. Instead of being tied over the person’s mouth, the scarf or cloth is pulled between his or her teeth. While such a gag of thin material is not very effective, a thick scarf can be used to hold his or her mouth open, and the tighter that gag is tied the better it works, although no matter how tightly it is tied, the gagged person can usually spit it out quickly if need be. It can be used effectively, however. But even when it is applied properly, the gagged person can still nearly say the words they are trying to say, but it just comes out muffled. Occasionally a knot is tied in the center of the gag so it works more like a ball gag.

Detective / over-the-mouth (OTM): the basic over-the-mouth gag. This type of gag is often described in fiction as preventing the subject from speaking, using soft materials like scarves and bandannas. In practice, it does not silence the subject much if at all, only really muffling the sound slightly. The long scarf or bandanna is pulled over the subject’s mouth and tied at the back of his/her head.

Bandit / over-the-nose (OTN): a bandit gag covers the mouth as well as the nose, and is commonly used in Japan and on many cartoons. Without stuffing, it is not very effective. Also known as an over the nose and mouth gag. Its name is due because it looks similar to a bandit mask.

Forniphilic gag: This type of gag has the primary purpose of objectifying and/or humiliating the wearer. The gag becomes a mounting point for a tool or other device which allows a submissive to perform a task or service for their Dominant. When employing the gag, the submissives’ hands are usually bound behind them so they have no other option than to control the tool with the gag. In order to provide stability and to allow the slave to control the tool, a muzzle gag with a mouthpiece is commonly used as a base for attaching the tool. Types of tool or device can be but are not limited to:  sex toy, ashtray, toilet brush, feather duster, boot or floor brush.

Funnel: a funnel gag consists of a funnel with a tube leading from its spout into the mouth, usually with straps to hold the tube in. Such a gag is used to force the bound person to drink a fluid, so it is easy to choke on the forced liquid and proper safety should be looked into. Making sure to know how to remove the gag quickly even if that means cutting the straps of the gag if the gagging leads to using safe signal.

Hand: a hand over the mouth can be used as a gag. When hand gagging someone, a person usually grabs the victim from behind since the victim cannot see this coming. Then, the person firmly places their unfolded hand over the victim’s closed mouth, normally leaving the nose uncovered so they can breathe. This then allows them to pull the other person into them for extra leverage and control during play.

Harness: A harness gag encircles the whole head, and the straps are generally secured by buckles that fasten at the back. Head harnesses are most commonly used to provide points of attachments to secure various kinds of gags, such as ball gags, bit gags, muzzle gags and ring gags. Although they have other uses, such as providing attachment points for other forms of bondage or may be used simply for their psychological effect. Head harnesses may also function as a gag by themselves, by restricting the ability to open the mouth or have a mouth cover as an integral part. Head harnesses, like many other forms of bondage, also have the effect of creating a sense of objectification and erotic helplessness in the wearer, which can be erotic for the wearer, or for those observing them. Many head harnesses are designed with straps that pass in front of the wearer’s eyes, restricting their vision, and further increasing the sense of objectification and erotic subjection.

Inflatable: An inflatable gag is usually a rubber balloon which is inflated by a hand valve. Most inflatable gags will not hold in the gagged person’s mouth well, so the gag is usually paired with a ring gag to keep it in place. It does not often inflate as much as a butterfly gag will, only becoming a ball shape rather than filling the mouth to the cheeks.

Knotted: a knotted gag is a blend of the ball and cleave gags. The scarf either has a knot tied in the middle and placed in the gagged person’s mouth or is an over the mouth (OTM) gag placed backward with the knot tied inside the person’s mouth. The knotted gag is able to soak up the saliva that the ball gag does not and can be easily washed for reuse. Knots can be doubled or tripled to fit the size of the gagged person’s mouth. Very useful for an on the go gag or when you cannot have toys/accessorizes with you.

Medical: Bondage pornography also depicts the use of medical gags such as the Whitehead gag and Jennings gag in BDSM contexts. Such gags allow unlimited access to the mouth. They stop coherent speech but do little to silence a person. They also keep a person from moving their head around due to the sides often having parts that protrude out from the gag itself.

Mouth corset: a mouth corset is a type of neck corset that covers both the neck and the mouth. Incorporating a gag into a neck corset presents a few safety issues: should the wearer begin to choke, it is not easy to remove the gag quickly. For this reason, most mouth corsets use a simple muzzle gag that merely covers the mouth and does not force anything into the mouth, thus minimizing the risk. Despite not forcing anything into the mouth, mouth corsets are usually very effective in gagging the victim due to the fact that the chin piece prevents the wearer from opening their mouth and dislodging the gag and the lacing at the back of the corset allows the gag to sit tightly against the mouth making a very effective seal. Very effective for silencing completely when compared to other gags.

Muzzle:  A muzzle gag works in a similar way as an OTM gag, only that they are usually made of leather, are fastened around the head with buckles and straps, and cover the lower part of the face. They have different shapes and colors, depending on the manufacturer. It is so called because it resembles a muzzle used on animals, with a flexible pad which straps over the mouth, and sometimes also around the cheeks and chin. Muzzle gags have a strong psychological effect on some people, because of the association of being restrained in a way generally associated with animals. Restricting movement of the jaw and covering the cheeks can both increase the efficiency of a gag. It is difficult to draw the line between a muzzle gag and a head harness with attached gag.

Penis gag: a penis gag is a gag that has a bulge resembling a phallus or a nipple that is placed into the mouth to enable the wearer to suck on it in a manner similar to an adult pacifier. The use of a phallus shape is intended to give it an erotic connotation, but it may be a large knob similar to a ball gag or it may be inflatable. The gag may be wide and flat and large enough almost to fill the mouth, intended to depress the tongue. To keep the gag in the mouth, it is usually paired with a ring, muzzle or panel gag attached to a strap that buckles behind the head.

Ring: a ring gag is similar to a ball gag, except that the ball is replaced by a hollow ring. The ring reduces the risk of choking and allows access to the mouth. Oral sex may be performed if the ring is big enough. A ring gag will cause the subject to drool uncontrollably, this often being the purpose of the gag.

Rope: a rope gag consists of a length of rope wound multiple times through the mouth of the person being gagged – similar to a cleave gag. Soft rope, such as nylon, works well for the comfort of the person being gagged, but rougher rope, such as hemp, will scratch the lips quite a bit. Rope gags can be made into a part of a full-body tie as well if the person binding the “victim” up uses the same length of rope for the gag as he does for the tie.

Spider Gag: a variation on the ring gag, the spider gag is also called a 2nd generation ring gag. The ring has hooks on the sides so as to keep the wearer from flipping the ring horizontally in their mouth. Unlike the ring gag which can be easily flipped, a spider gag is essentially functional and non-decorative. Generally, these gags have interchangeable rings so as to accommodate both the wearers’ mouth and the size of any object that might be inserted through the ring.

Stuff: a stuff gag is very similar to, and works in the same way as, the ball gag. The person’s mouth is stuffed with handkerchiefs, scarves, socks, hosiery, panties, bandanas or any item rolled into a ball, acting as a stopper. To reduce the chances of choking, the stuff gag is never pushed all the way into the person’s mouth. Instead, a large part of it hangs out of the mouth, allowing the top to pull it out easily when he/she has to.

Tape: a tape gag involves the use of sticky tape over the mouth. The most commonly used types are duct tape, gaffer tape and PVC tape from two to three inches wide. Tape gags are the simplest gags to apply. If the wearer blows while the tape is on it makes it easier to remove, making it not the most effective gag. To better secure the tape, a long strip of tape can be wrapped around the lower part of the person’s head. A strip from ear to ear under the jaw restricts jaw movement, making the gag more effective. However, the tape can cause the skin on the lips to be ripped off and it can irritate the lips and cause fever blisters in those who have dormant fever blisters or cold sores. The tape can also rip hair off when wrapped around the head. The longer the tape is left on, the harder it will be to remove from the skin. Though many prefer ball gags and bit gags during bondage play, tape gags are often used when neither is available.  While tape gags can be combined with stuff gags for extra effectiveness, it is easy for one to choke on the stuffing inside of the mouth.

Tube: a tube gag uses a tube instead of a ring. It allows easy breathing but not much mouth access. It is also possible to have a tube through the ball of a ball gag.

Whitehead gag: a Whitehead gag, also called a mouth spreader gag or a dental open mouth gag, is a device to hold the mouth open.

These are all the ones that I have been able to look up and find as a blogger, as you can see the world of gags is a vast one! So if it is an intrest of yours as it is mine, get out there and enjoy it! Just remember to be safe when you do it!

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30 Days of Kink Redux: Day 3

(No you did not miss day 2 please see the main post on 30DoKRedux for details!)

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

You know when I first wrote about this I went on a little bit how it was tough to pinpoint a time that I knew I was kinky. I grew up as a child with AOL and found myself poking around the roleplay chat rooms. That and a curiosity for the books I found in my parent’s room made for one kinky teenager who was writing about things she had never experienced but knew that it gave her a thrill to even think about.

Looking back I found that I was shaping a lot of my biggest kinks as well as finding my hardest limits during that time. With the ambiguity of the internet to hide behind I had a place to experiment where I wouldn’t be judged. I didn’t think to worry about who I was doing this with because I could always block them if they got too persistent or pushy about trying to get to know who I was behind the screen name.  Because that wasn’t what I was looking for, that isn’t to say I didn’t eventually do things like that. But it was never what I was looking for not back then, the encounters were with other teens who were fumbling as well with their sexuality and so I thought maybe this isn’t what I am looking for.

It wasn’t until I had moved out from my parent’s place, I was able to stretch and I did find that I wasn’t alone. I found more resources and more information about the things I was into. I had friends who told me that no, this was a thing. This was in my 20’s that this happened and so I sort of dove in head first. I was with my boyfriend at the time who tried his hardest to give me the things I craved, but it was a hard thing to fulfill because as we figured out at the end of the relationship…we were both very submissive and did not have a switchy bone in our bodies. So when the first super dominant guy came into my life, I clung to it like a lifesaver thinking that it was all I needed. I knew what I wanted but I still didn’t have the best way of communicating it, I let him make all the choices and it soon turned into a weapon for controlling me. But that is how I had played so long ago so it had to be right.

This is when the true discovery started, I started this blog in hopes to discover more about me as a sexual person. I wanted to have a place where I could get the thoughts out and learn more. The layers of the true kinky self-starting to peel back what had been hiding behind the layers that had been created by teenage me.  I was able to find the kinky ethical informed slut that I was under all of it. I found my enjoyment of reviewing toys, of performing on cam and being open about my kink rather than hiding it in my bedroom. I wanted to make it more of my life but knew that I couldn’t do it with the person I was with, while I loved them our relationship on that level was toxic.  So I stepped back and took time away from that to just build me, to grow more into the person that I wanted to be through the introspection that I had never really taken the time to give my younger self.

So really I didn’t discover my true kinky self until well into my 30s, which I am honestly grateful for.

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30 Days of Kink Redux: Day 1

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically, define your kinky self for us.

So perhaps you are thinking that this has changed, that I have found myself some sort of grand change and I am now a firm Dom or even a switch? Naw, still very much a submissive individual. However, I have found that there are significant facets to my submission. This also really I have found has tied into what parts of BDSM I find myself drawn to.

But let’s break this down first just the basics before we get a little deeper.

Bondage: Still I think I am into, but something that is not an active part of who I am. This isn’t to say that it is a limit, quite the contrary it is something I am rather eager to have done to me. However, it is something that is very hard for me to want, because of past experience in which it has been tainted. My wrists being held or bound in some way has become a huge trigger of mine from a past relationship where it was used against me in an abusive manner. But something I really want to work past at some point with a person I can trust to know I need a gentle hand.

Dominance/submission: Oh boy, so this is going to be complicated. It does fall back on having my submission in the past being very much abused and used as a way to control me. But I am finding myself actually having someone I can trust again to take the time that is needed so that I can feel comfortable in actually being submissive once more. I still have my days where I have to take a moment and look at what is going on, that I still have the ability to say ‘no’ even though I have agreed to something. Because that ability has been given back to me.

Sadism/masochism: So not much has changed here, I still enjoy it on so many levels. I mean I have upped my level of tattoos and even been branded at this point. It is more than just the pain as well. I have come to enjoy the actual enjoyment of the sadists in my life when they are amused by my pain. It has slipped its way into simple things from being okay to let people hear me get a deep massage to the smirk on someone’s face as they watch me deal with of all things the pins and needles in my leg from sitting curled up for too long. Or how suggestible I am to certain feelings due to an overactive imagination that can just feel something like someone pretending to stitch at my skin and the shivers it sends up my spine. Though health issues have kept any more than that from happening because I have had to be very careful with what I can do. The most I have earned in bruises has been falling down my stairs.

right leg brand

Brand freshly done (this was the the second round)

There are a lot of other smaller sides of BDSM that I have started to also identify more with but I am trying to find where I fit in or reclaim them from issues in my past. The two largest being both Primal and my little side.

Primal I realize that I have a side to me that does not always think with a human mindset. I work on a very basic set of instincts that for me mostly stick to being prey minded but I know that now and then, there is a bit of a predator in there (though not by much if far bigger ones are around.)

My little side, well that is going to get its own whole post here as I have started working out those issues and has turned into such. But it is one that I want to highly reclaim from my past.

So in a basic nutshell, this is the bare bones of who I am kink-wise. The next few weeks of doing this will certainly expound upon each bit in one way or another.

 

 

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30 Days of Kink: Redux

It has been five years since I worked on my 30 days of Kink for the first time, and I have to say there are times that I thought about going back to just scrap every post I had made. But I started thinking about it and decided that it was better to keep it there and start over. Why? Because honestly, I wanted to be able to show my journey and the changes that have happened in this time with who I have become as a kinky individual.

Now the last time, I got nowhere near finishing all 30 days only actually getting 16 of the full 30 days done. This time I do plan on finishing all 30 as well as linking to the original posts when available.

Will I do them all in order? Likely not, but I am going to try.

Will I get them all done in a 30-day span? Very much not going to happen, I plan to work on them but I am not going to push myself this time to reach them via a deadline which I think is what slowed me down the last time.  They will likely happen in highs and lows over the next few weeks. I want to really work and explore each one. Especially the ones that I have past posts.

Once again I will be using this starting post as the main place to keep track of all of them. Though this time with a new tag so that the two can be seperated from one another in some fashion.

So without further ado, here is that list once again. I hope you enjoy following me on this ride once more.

30 Days of Kink

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically, define your kinky self for us.
Day 2: List your kinks.
Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?
Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?
Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?
Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.
Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
Day 10: What are your hard limits?
Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?
Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?
Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?
Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?
Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
Day 20: Talk about something within kink/BDSM that you’re curious about/don’t understand.
Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)
Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?
Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

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