Kink of the Week: Teardrops

This subject for kink of the week had me thinking quite a bit.

When it comes to crying, I wouldn’t say that it is a personal turn on for me. I have been with guys who it has been a turn on for, and they have certainly done what they can to bring me to those tears that they liked so much. I have asked why it turns them on, but I have never gotten much save for the simple answer of ‘it just does’.

The only time, tears really mean anything to me on a personal level is when I am being spanked, flogged or whipped. With the pain that I enjoy there are times, when the tears they bubble up and burst through. Never in sobbing heaves, but they will simply just start to pour down my cheeks.

It is the type of tears for me that makes it okay, they are not tears of fear or sadness. They are just tears of release, like a pressure valve being loosened just enough in me that gives them the ability to come out. Because I have stopped the thinking that is holding them back and just allowed myself to feel. There have been times I have wanted to ask someone to bring me to those tears, but I have never quite had the drive to do it. Mostly due to thinking that they might think less of me for wanting it. For needing to get to that point to feel better. So for me it comes often when I least expect it.

In the end, when I have cried, I always feel just the same as if I had gotten a really good orgasm. Like weight has been lifted off of me in many ways, light and ready to focus on so many other tasks that are far more important then the things that had been weighing me down. I gave that dam a chance to break and I am better for it.


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TMI Tuesday: Winter Chills

It has been awhile since I did anything with TMI Tuesday, so lets see if I can’t get back into the swing of things!


1. Where you live what is the current season?

Winter, bone chilling, snow on the ground, the air hurts my face winter. 

2. Do you measure/report the weather temperature in Celsius or Fahrenheit?


3. Describe your ideal day of weather?

4. When it is cold outside I want to:
a. Run outside naked because it is exhilarating.
b. Bundle up in warm clothes and take a winter walk.
c. Turn the heat up, stay indoors, hibernate until warm weather returns.
d. I do not pay attention to the weather.

I am such a homebody during the winter it is not even funny, half the time it is far too cold out there to function. So I would rather stay home with a warm cup of tea, books and other things to keep me from going stir crazy. 

5. Do you go “commando” in cold weather or in winter?

Lately, I have been doing that. Not in skirts because well I just do not often wear them during winter. But being bundled up in a few layers of pants I just seem to forget that panties are a thing. 

6. For 10,000 USD Would you rather ride a bike for one mile (1.6 km) in 7 degrees  F/ 14 degrees C weather  or jump naked into a freezing cold Alaskan lake in winter?

Right now, totally. So long as someone was at the end waiting for me with a blanket and hot drink!

7. What is your favorite piece of winter clothing?

Scarfs, I have become a bit obsessed with them as of late. 

8. Have you ever worn Long Johns aka long underwear or thermal underwear?

I think I may have when I was a child, but since being an adult I have not.

Bonus: Do you have more or less sex in the winter months vs. other times of year?

I believe that I tend to have more sex during the winter, it is my favorite activity to warm me and the person I am with up. 

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Kink of the Week: Give me That Look

Getting back into the swing of things with Kink of the Week, and this week is certainly something that gets me weak in the everything.

The Look.

Now, to be fair. Not everyone can get that reaction from attempting to give that look that can make me snap my mouth shut, look down and away or just stop me in my tracks. But when someone knows just how to give the right tilt of the head and the weight behind the eyes that you can feel, it just does something too me. It triggers this reaction that is just deep inside of me and makes me feel small, but at the same time almost safe. That sends a shiver down my spine without even being touched and if done just right, could send me right to my knees. It just triggers my submissive nature like no other, just that look and no words. Because it lets my mind wander to just what could come from that look depending on what I am doing. It could be I am about to get something I will enjoy or I am about to certainly pay for being a brat.

It gets me in trouble sometimes, because there are people who I swear don’t know when they do it. That they don’t get that they are sending that reaction to my brain that I have to hide. That I have to keep them from seeing my cheeks flaring up bright red or how badly I want to bite my lip.

But then there are those that I trust, the people who know me, the ones who use it with all the good behind it. Who know for that moment, its sending a small rush through my body and releasing those relaxing endorphin that leak out when my submissive side gets to come out and play. Even when it cannot go further than that, its something that reminds me and keeps me in that place I love so much. It’s also that perfect tease at times that keeps me squirming until they are able to get their hands on me later.

The look, so simple but perfect, and such a needed kink in my life.

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Long Time No Post

So, things have been a little stressful again in my life. But I am going to be catching up here slowly but surely. Keep an eye out for posts as well as some changes to the layout! But I mostly wanted to let people know that I am still alive here!

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HedoVibes Round Up #62

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Sale: Bottoms Up! Plugs on Sale at Tantus!

cheeky 25Now when it comes to plugs I will admit that I have not had the most experience with , anal in any forms has only recently become a thing that I enjoy. But when it has come to using the only plug I have gotten from Tantus which was my ever so lovely Ryder I was sold on actually using plugs more often in my sex life!

But I know that some people while curious don’t know what they are doing to actually pick a plug! While I am no expert at it, thankfully Tantus does have Ducky Doolittle who wrote a fantastic article on the 6 Ways to Pick a Plug that I found helps out so much! But don’t forget to check out what you can learn about lube from Metis Black, because where their is any kind of plug play there should be lube, this one has two awesome parts (Part one and Part Two). Both of these are fantastic reads to get you started down to road to plug perfection!

Plus it helps that Tantus is having a 25% off sale all of there plugs right now, which includes the newest toy they debuted The Perfect Plug which while I have not tried just from the shape and base looks perfect or any beginner! So there is really a plug for everyone no matter what your experience with it is! So don’t miss out on some awesome sex education and a great sale!

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