I love a good party like anyone else does, being surrounded by friends the laughs and the stories over flowing. But as much as I love that, it makes me forget that sometimes I need to take the time to enjoy my alone time. Life they say is like a party, so who says you can’t party by yourself? I have been learning it myself which is one of the hardest lessons to learn that it is okay to be alone sometimes. That its okay to have fun with yourself because if you can’t be happy alone, how can you be happy with others around?
A party of one can be fun, you get to wear what you feel comfortable in be it your favorite pair of pants and a tank top, panties and a bra or even nothing at all! There is no need to dress up to impress or worry about what you are wearing. Crank the music so you can hear it through the whole house, rock those guilty pleasures and the dance moves that you wouldn’t attempt in company because it makes you feel good to just drop it like its hot!
Dance by yourself, with a pillow or heck nothing is more fun then dancing with a pet. Sing at the top of your lungs if you enjoy singing no matter what your voice is like. Make your favorite drinks and enjoy them, enjoy the time to yourself and with your favorite person. It gives you a chance to decompress from the stress around you and take care of yourself for a night. Your worries float away because you can just laugh at your own silliness and smile. You can even get a little naughty and enjoy that time alone in so many other ways, because of course who know better how to please you then yourself!
So never be upset that you have no one to party with, bring the party to you!
Happy Birthday Wicked Wednesday!
Get down with your bad selves!