It has been five years since I worked on my 30 days of Kink for the first time, and I have to say there are times that I thought about going back to just scrap every post I had made. But I started thinking about it and decided that it was better to keep it there and start over. Why? Because honestly, I wanted to be able to show my journey and the changes that have happened in this time with who I have become as a kinky individual.
Now the last time, I got nowhere near finishing all 30 days only actually getting 16 of the full 30 days done. This time I do plan on finishing all 30 as well as linking to the original posts when available.
Will I do them all in order? Likely not, but I am going to try.
Will I get them all done in a 30-day span? Very much not going to happen, I plan to work on them but I am not going to push myself this time to reach them via a deadline which I think is what slowed me down the last time. They will likely happen in highs and lows over the next few weeks. I want to really work and explore each one. Especially the ones that I have past posts.
Once again I will be using this starting post as the main place to keep track of all of them. Though this time with a new tag so that the two can be seperated from one another in some fashion.
So without further ado, here is that list once again. I hope you enjoy following me on this ride once more.
30 Days of Kink
Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically, define your kinky self for us.
Day 2: List your kinks.
Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?
Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?
Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?
Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.
Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
Day 10: What are your hard limits?
Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?
Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?
Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?
Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?
Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
Day 20: Talk about something within kink/BDSM that you’re curious about/don’t understand.
Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)
Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?
Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.