Guest Review: Vedo Cowboy

Today’s post is brought to you not by me, but by one of the people in my Poly Family Circle as I like to call it. Sage Lior came to me looking for advice on a toy and I, of course, directed him to SheVibe where we found him what he was looking for but didn’t have to get it from a company that I couldn’t recommend. He was awesome enough to write up this review! While I did do some minor edits, these are his words.

The Cowboy is a vibrating prostate massager made by Vedo.  The Cowboy is rechargeable, has a dual motor stimulator delivering stimulation to both the prostate and perineum simultaneously. Made from silicone, this toy is easy to care for and has 10 functions and two independent remote controlled motors (remote does need batteries).

The Numbers

  • Length: 6.5″
  • Insertable Length: 4″
  • Width: 1.1″ at largest point

Vedo Resting in Sage’s Hand

So what did he think?

So first impressions. About the Cowboy itself, it is, of course, made of made out of silicone but also includes a pleasant, soft touch to it. Along with the remote, there is a power button on the device, and also sports a self-healing port to plug in the USB charge cord. The device is made to be shower friendly which is why the port is made like this.


The device came without a charge. Which brings me to my first issue with the product as a whole. You will see the foldable brochure that advertises all of their models, as well as the card explaining how the remote functions, but has no instructions for the device itself of any kind but included, were instructions for their silicone cock rings, which suggests the possibility that the wrong brochure accompanied the device. I would have at least appreciated a time frame in which the device took to charge. The device is simple enough but I found it perplexing.


Vedo (Left) and IMG G-spot Vibe (Right)

First and foremost I am going to praise its shape. As you will see in the picture, the device the black one on the right consists only of one primary phallus. It is curved ergonomically for a prostate massager, but what occurs every time is the toy will rotate while it is inside and the curve will either be sideways or in reverse, not allowing the vibrations to reach the prostate as well. On the Cowboy, you will see that it also includes a second point which is to press against the perineum and also includes a motor inside. Just this design alone should ensure that once the toy is inserted it should STAY IN PLACE, allowing the vibrations to pinpoint where it is intended.

Now for the power. This is certainly the most powerful vibrator I’ve had for an anal toy. The 10 setting include your normal 3 degrees of power, then into the various rhythms & speeds.

This toy did everything I wanted and more. It was smooth going in, was extremely comfortable, and stayed in place. I was able to use it in multiple positions. The ring on the end was an excellent touch, making being able to move the toy how you liked much easier. The remote needs to be a bit close to the toy, but it was no strain to get the remote to reach. The vibration strength was the best I’ve ever had, though I personally would like to find something a bit stronger. I highly recommend this product for all levels of experience. Also, there is a Cowgirl model as well that appears to be the same principal with minor adjustments.


The Cowboy by Vedo can be gotten at Shevibe in blue and black, both $49. Thank you to Sage for the excellent review!


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Kink of the Week: The Cutting Edge

Having my clothes cut/torn off of me is a kink that I have actually never gotten to experience, I have watched gifs and even video of it happening to others so often that I know exactly where to look when that particular pants feeling pops up. I have teased myself with my own knives, trailing them just under the edges of straps and along my skin in hopes of it feeling the same, but it has only ever been a tease.


There is something about the idea of someone else being at the other end of that knife, it takes the control away from me and puts me totally in their hands. Often I think about being tied up when it happens, but there is a whole other level when my brain can only think of being told to keep still.  It comes with that urge to obey when the right person is the knife wielder in my head. Teasing threats of how I need to stop squirming or they might just cut something they didn’t mean to. That I know that if I were to flinch it would be more than fabric cut. Taking their time slowly letting me hear and feel the fabric slowly being removed at their whim.

On the other side of the coin, tearing off clothes comes with need. That you need to get things off now. It is never everything being torn off, it is always parts, the front of a shirt either down the buttons or just tearing down the collar of a t-shirt, a pair of tights/leggings/stockings, or even just as simple panties being torn right off. It is that passion that they have to have access to me right this second. I have had clothes pulled off me quickly but never with the intensity that comes with tearing. In my head, it always comes with a lot of other rough touches, the kind that leaves marks the next day.

Both of them have such amazing outcomes, both make me squirm as the thoughts flow through my mind even as I write this. I know that for the next few nights it is going to be the focal point of my fantasies or my searches for what I might want to get off on. But I certainly know that until it happens, I am not going to be as sated as I want to be.

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Review: Unicorn Horn by Split Peaches

It is 2017 and there are so many unicorn branded items out there, from frappuccinos to makeup brushes. It is certainly a thing that was grasped onto tightly and I for one welcome it into my life happily! So when I saw the Unicorn Horn Dildos made by Split Peaches, I knew I had to have it. They come in so many colors, from traditional white to a dark blue/purple, but I knew I needed mine to be rainbow colored when I saw it.


Each toy made by Split Peaches is designed and poured in their Peach Pit laboratory and using only 100% body safe platinum cure silicone.

I got my Unicorn horn in their medium size (numbers below) it does come in a small and large size as well, so there is something for everyone. The swirls on the twist of the horn causing a ripple texture over the whole toy.  The base does make it compatible with a harness or it can be used alone.

The Numbers

  • 8″ Insertable
  • 2 1/4″ around at the base

So what did I think of it?

When I pulled my Unicorn Horn out of the box, there was a flash in my mind that I had fucked up and pulled an, my eyes are bigger than my body can handle. Running my hand up and down it, I felt the ridges and that somehow put me to ease. It started rather small at the top so I knew this would be a toy I would take some time slowly working in rather than getting it all in with one go.

Echo Horn

Unicorn Horn next to Tantu Echo (Left) Close up of ridges on both (Right)

It was certainly not a toy I was going to start with, but I wanted to prepare myself for the ridges so I used my Tantus Echo first as a warm-up toy because the ridges on that also prepare my g-spot for stimulation but not heavily. The Unicorn Horn, once I got it into me was just what I needed. Every sturdy curve seemed to hit just the right spot, twisting it and turning it inside of me even provided a new sensation I was not aware I could enjoy. Once I was able to take a good amount of it, the larger ridges reminded me of using my fantasy toys that have knots to them, just nice and round to give it the kind of almost popping sensation that I enjoy. The whole experience was the right mix of stimulation I needed to get a very deep orgasm without anything for vibration.

When adding in a bullet or other vibrating toy for my clit, it gets even better. The added sensation I find keeps me baring down on the ridges of the horn allowing for slightly stronger orgasm finally in the end but due to the swirl of the horn, it did allow for my muscles to almost try and push it out of me when I did finally come.

There was only one real downside for me, my hands are small so the base on the Medium was almost too big for me to hold for long periods. Though I did find that the base made it very sturdy to stand up and of course ride the horn. I think the only thing I would wish for is if Split Peaches made a version that could easily suction to a wall or other flat surface. However, that is a good thing for those who plan to use the toy in a harness, as the base will be rather sturdy during use once it is in.

Overall I love my Unicorn horn! I feel like one day I may try the jump from Medium to Large and even make sure I get a small to add to my collection for the days I want the sensation but to be able to hold it for long periods of time. If you are looking for a toy that is going to be both filling and stimulating, this is certainly one for you!

Thank you, Split Peaches for sending me the Unicorn Horn in return for this review. The Unicorn Horn in Medium is currently available from their site for $65!

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Fantasies of October

Autumn finally started for me in October, the weather finally started to get cooler as the end of the month drew closer. My thoughts have certainly been keeping me warm as I have gotten a few new toys to test in the mail from my newest affiliate SheVibe that I cannot wait to get done reviewing!

I got another tattoo this Friday the 13th, I am not one who can resist the sirens call of the needles in my flesh. It reminded me of how cathartic pain can be for me, a few hours before that I had been having the worst day. Dealing with a manager who was blaming me for outside issues that had nothing to do with our job, said job just being super toxic and me needing to get out of the situation. It left me nearly crying it was so bad.



Rather simple black cat, but a check mark on my tattoo bucket list. (Taken only a small time after getting)

But then I was in the artist’s chair waiting for the buzz of the gun and as the first lines were started everything slipped away from me. The pain shot through my body and I felt like I could finally relax. I closed my eyes and just let the stress go away, afterward I strode home feeling better than I had in weeks.

I’m Just a Sucker for Pain

It reminded me how much I not only enjoy pain but how much I actually need it sometimes. So this, of course, leads to many of my masturbatory thoughts to be of pain, which after last month with the St Andrew’s Cross, is no surprise that they often met in the middle. It has me missing past bruises that I have received, ones that still have lingering spots where the marks didn’t quite fade but that I wish I could see blossom to life again. Then, of course, new and interesting ones as I browse through impact toys on various sites wondering just what would pique my interest. Though I think the one that has my attention currently is the Lollie Crop from Stockroom. I just feel like it would leave the most perfect round marks on my skin. I have used other interesting paddles in the past like the Jack Boot which while I have since gifted to a good friend on his foray into his first power dynamic still has left quite an imprint on my mind. I have even been looking back into nipple clamps after digging through what I had to use for a girls night sleepover when building our blanket fort. It was a moment of, I really would like to get more in my collection, but with the shape of my nipples, I am always disappointed with how they fit until I saw the Spartacus Adjustable Press Clamps. I have to say I am intrigued with how they could fit.

Each thing I think about only fuels me more, hopefully, I can get back into the swing of things with a few reviews I still have pending for a few impact toys soon. So what dear readers have filled your thoughts this last month? Or do you have a favorite sensation/impact toy you think I should know about? Feel free to share in the comments!


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Review: Fun Factory Boss

FFBossFor those who have been reading my reviews lately, I have been on a bit of a g-spot toy kick. The Fun Factory Boss caught my eye with its natural shape and organic curves of the toy. At 7″ inches in length and over an inch and a half in width it is also a sturdy toy, perfect for strap-on uses and solo play as well. The flat base even has mild suction allowing it to stick to a flat surface such as a mirror, hardwood floor, glass or tile. The base also allows it to be used anally as well as vaginally, so it is a toy that anyone can use.

The whole length of the toy has a velvety body-safe silicone texture that causes just a bit of drag when running your skin over it. So it is a toy that you will want to make sure you are using lube with.

So what did I think of it?

When I first took Boss out of its packaging I fell in love with the heft of it and quickly found my wall to stick it to. I was already looking forward to using it, the curve and the width were just up my alley. It was love at first sight! I had to take a couple days from trying it because I had just gotten my IUD installed so I was super tender and I knew that I was not going to be able to correctly review it. After waiting a week, I practically jumped into bed with Boss eagerly.

The first thing I noticed, the part they say can be used much like a suction base is a little unclear. While things like the slickest of mirrors and tile are good, my painted wall was not. That was no worry, I could still hold the base comfortably so that I could use it as a thrusting toy with one of my many clitoral toys. So I lubed it up and after warming myself up with some good erotica and at least one orgasm I went to insert the toy. It went in with a pop and even with The Butters coating it I found it wasn’t slick enough. It the velvet texture caused this drag that was uncomfortable. Then I noticed the prerenal ridge of the head was just too firm as it would continue that popping feeling that felt like something knocking my pelvic bone. While I enjoy that feeling I need the ridge itself to have a little bit more give much like the Tantus O2 Flurry.



Top: Tantus O2 Flurry Bottom: Fun Factory Boss 

Not one to dismay over a toy not working, I tried to work my magic to see if I could make it work for me. I tried to use it with the ridge facing downward but I found that to just not be able to stimulate me in the right ways enough to enjoy it. I tried everything I could think of more lube, more foreplay and even turning it around nothing seemed to work. Something wasn’t right and I couldn’t quite figure it out. Then I remembered that this happened to me before when I got the Ophoria Beyond 3! The two have that same sort of velvet texture drag and even though that toy worked so well for other bloggers including Epiphoria, my body wanted nothing to do with it! I think when I looked into the Boss I thought that like other preferences that I have had in the past that this one might have changed for my body as well. I am sad to say that for me at least it has not, who knows in a few years I might want this particular texture to my toy, just not at this moment.


This is not to say that Boss is a bad toy, I have read many other positive reviews from other bloggers. This is just one that did not work for me. If you are the kind of person that enjoys more of a drag and resistance to the texture of your toy then this is one for you! If you like your silicone to be very firm when it comes to your g-spot or prostate stimulation then this toy is for you as well! I know that after my girlfriend gives Boss a try I will be updating this review with her thoughts.

Thank you to Ignite for sending me this body-safe toy in exchange for this unbiased review, while it did not work for me I am glad that I was able to test it out! Check it out there and make sure you sign up for their email to get 15% off your purchase!


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Fantasies of September

Autumn is here and there is so much going on, enjoying the change of season, questioning how it can still be so warm (woo climate change!) and of course preparing for Halloween.

While this month has not been a slow one for me in the way of fantasizing, but they all have centered around one main theme.

The St. Andrew’s Cross



Picture courtesy of Violet (A Poly Princess


It all started when Violet from A Poly Princess posted her cam room set up for play parties on her Twitter and laid my eyes on hers. I was in awe of it and suddenly remembering how much of a love I have for this particular bit of furniture. I remember the first time I saw one, in the same building I would go to LARP in they also held private play parties. It was taller than me and bright red, I used to enjoy leaning back against it. It was sturdy and so comfortable. Though I never got to use it for its true purpose, it sparked so many thoughts of all the things that could be done.

Those same thoughts floated back to my mind seeing the picture. Just the idea of getting to be attached to the arms and legs of the cross, not able to move. Blindfolded, gagged or even totally deprived of senses. Then what could be done to me! Flogged, spanked, caned, tickled, any number of toys could be used and of course, if the angle is right fucked. They are all the same thoughts I had long ago when I first saw that simple cross made of wood and stained a deep shade of red. I look back and wish that younger me had been a little braver about what she really wanted. Though I know that in the place I am at now, I am certainly in a better headspace to handle it. The possibilities are pretty endless at least to my very kinky brain. I have even started thinking about how I can fit one into my own room because it has basically become like a few other things something I need to have one day. Because honestly, I don’t have enough things in my life that I can be tied to in any fashion. Which to my newly awakening libido is a very inconvenient thing and I must remedy it quickly.

So now, of course, I am looking at so many from Etsy to Stockroom. I have even been looking into just being like, maybe I should make my own, I do know quite a few people who work with wood so it wouldn’t even be a strange request. It is very clear that I have started myself down what could turn into an adventure. Also, rather certain that none of my housemates would be sad to me obtaining one either. If this particular adventure gets off the ground beyond my internet window shopping, I am quite certain you will all get to enjoy my chronicling about it and what comes after I have obtained it.

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